Are you playing along with this 31-day challenge? Even if you haven’t, jump in now! The rules are simple. If you need my prompt below, use it. If not, still write. JUST WRITE....as many words as you need to. To share what you write, post in the comments or in Notes.
Embracing Beginner's Mind
During our childhood and early adult years, almost every experience we encounter is new. It's an era characterized by an endless stream of 'firsts,' a period of profound learning and discovery that lends a unique thrill to life.
Remember the exhilaration of riding a bicycle for the first time? The rush of triumph when the training wheels were finally removed? That’s the essence of the beginner's mind. My insatiable curiosity, which I noted on Day 9, still craves that sense of discovery, that feeling of a fresh, new perspective.
However, as years go by, I've noticed a pervasive reluctance among adults to embrace the concept of a 'beginner's mind.' It's as though the beginner's mind becomes a relic constrained to the realm of youthful experimentation.
The reluctance can extend into even the most mundane aspects of our daily lives, from trying a new recipe to exploring a previously unvisited park. As we accumulate birthdays, the willingness to embody the beginner's mindset seems to fade.
Why might this be the case? A beginner's mind demands a readiness to acknowledge our ignorance on a given subject. For many adults, this is too uncomfortable to allow. We prefer to present ourselves as competent, if not experts. Publicly admitting we’re novices contradicts the self-image we've meticulously crafted.
This is top of mind for me as I engage in new activities related to finally moving myself toward being a professional writer. When I’ve supported writers for so many years as a coach and editor, am I willing to publicly admit I don’t know everything about being a writer? Soooo much to learn. I must keep reminding myself that the writing/publishing industry is ever-evolving, the old models are falling apart, and subscriptions for authors is a concept still in its infancy, particularly for the genres I write.
So, this afternoon I’ll be interviewed on a podcast, and I’ll publicly admit that I’m a novice at this. And for this possibility, I’m willing--eager, even--to be a beginner.
Your Prompt / Day 11 of 31
Reflect on a time when you resisted embracing the beginner's mind. Have you passed up chances to participate in inspiring experiences, thrilling adventures, or simply plain fun escapades because of an aversion to being a beginner? What might have changed if you'd allowed yourself to be a novice?
Thanks for joining me in this challenge! Please invite your friends.
In mid-life, I have started looking at people in their sixties, seventies, beyond for inspiration about how I might want to live into my older years (because most of the people in my immediate circle age unhappily) and what I've found is that most of the people I want to be like are the people who keep embracing that beginner's mind even though doing so is hard.
You might be interested in the book Old in Art School on this topic.
Congrats on doing the podcast. I think it's wonderful!!